Life is a real competition

Life is like a competition. The competition consists of a lot of games with different size. There are mini games, intermediate games, and big games. Every game has its challenges and tricks. They are not just a game that we can win by doing nothing. Perhaps, we can win some games with some helps. However, mostly, we should consider to use manners or rational egoism. People say that kindness could defeat everything. Honestly, I do not think it will work to every situation in life since people may misuse our kindness that leads to prevent us to enjoy life. Therefore, in certain circumstances, I have chosen rational egoism as my reaction. I am whatever I am. I will give my kindness in right situation and time. No one can force me to do it. Because, for me, if someone asked you to do something that can makes you annoyed and you follow him, you definitely have no control in your own life and you have lost the game.